Do you think is possible to be friends with benefits? You meet someone that you really seem to enjoy. There is a mutual like and interest between the two of you. The conversations between the two of you provides stimulation and spans many interests. The date nights are filled with amazing events. Your heart and mind become more engaged into this new man due to the good emotions and feelings that comes when he is in your presence. One particular night, your emotions become the best of you. The moon hangs just right in the sky. Dinner was amazing and so the two of you spend a romantic event together. Your emotions are now tied tighter than the night before.
The phone rings a few days later. He asks if you can meet for lunch. The tone in his voice does not sound similar to the previous calls between the two of you. You meet with a lump in your stomach, you know that the conversation will not be good. He tells you that he is not ready for a relationship although he things that you are beautiful woman, he would rather remain friends. However, he would like to meet up with you from time to time.
Can friendship with benefits really work? Can you honestly have sex with someone without a connection or even wanting more? Be honest, emotions are powerful tools that live within us. Our emotions control our actions. In this particular situation, the end result usually leads to an individual walking away with a broken hear. There is always a certain level of expectation that we carry for any relationship. This situation is no different. It is not my place to judge but to enlighten. Never sell yourself short. You are worth abundant happiness and deserving of having a partner that adores, admires, loves, supports, and respects you. Remember, you are the example to others as to how you want to be treated.
