There’s pretty much nothing more gratifying than falling in love and becoming partners for life. Happily ever after feels pretty incredible – and whether you are just starting out in a new relationship, have been together for years or are just finding your groove – being in a solid relationship feels pretty good. Many of us have been in relationships that aren’t so good – you find yourself feeling somewhat stuck or unhappy – but you aren’t sure how to fix the situation. If you know you’re in love and you want to take your relationship from good to great – here’s a look at some of the habits of happy couples. For some of us, this is the best way to learn a thing or two!
Habits of happy couples
Focus on the good rather than harping on the bad. Everyone’s partner annoys them from time to time. We are all only human and that means we are bound to get on one another’s nerves here and there. There’s no doubt that sometimes that annoying stuff piles up and feels unbearable, but it’s important to remember why you love that person in the first place. Try exchanging the bad with something good – Let’s say your partner leaves toothpaste in the sink every morning, but what about those awesome bear hugs he gives. See! It’s a great solution.
When small issues erupt into giant ones, remember where the argument started. If you’re able to go back to the actual root of the problem, you’ll probably realize that whatever is troubling you has been blown out of proportion. Remind yourself that you love this person and getting so upset over something so silly is not necessary. Save your emotions for the serious stuff.
Don’t forget to hug and kiss. It sounds so simple, but the embrace of your lover and the feel of his or her skin against your own does a lot for making you feel reassured and filled with love. Expression through physical touch is essential for a successful relationship – so don’t be afraid to show it.
Take time-tested relationship advice to heart. Like never go to bed angry. Even if you’re so mad you can’t see straight, remember to tell you partner you love him or her before you go to sleep. You’ll both sleep better and will wake up in the morning prepared to tackle even the toughest issues with a level head and love in your heart. Sometimes the people we love the most also make us the most frustrated, but it’s worth working it out.
Spend time together doing fun and relaxing things. When you’re always working or always taking care of kids and things around the house, it’s easy to forget why you like one another in the first place. Spending time simply doing something you love together will help reaffirm your bond and give you a chance to laugh together.
How do you keep your relationship happy, light and on solid ground? Got any tips to share?
