There are only a few days left until we see everyone at MAIC 2016. Can you believe it? Just in time for a little reflection, I’ve uncovered another one of my favorite posts from this time a few years ago. This post deals with the topic of truth and honesty. Not just with others, but with ourselves and our deepest desires. It’s only when we are honest with ourselves about what we want in life that we can actually achieve it. If you’re making excuses or lying to yourself about what you want or need, you’re already shortchanging yourself. Let’s bring a little honesty to our life goals. It’s the only way to achieve a happier existence.
Life Lessons: Truth & Honesty
Iām in the middle of readingĀ WomenomicsĀ by Claire Shipman and Katty Kay. So far, itās a brilliant book, and I hope to go into detail hopefully next week afterĀ convention ends.Ā But one thing that did catch my attention right away was theĀ fact that these women authors were speaking their truth and being honest withĀ what they wanted out of life.Ā They want it all: family, work,Ā andĀ a life.Ā And they donāt want to feel guilty about vocalizing their desires.
All of us want different things. And all of usĀ needĀ different things.Ā The tricky partĀ is identifying what we want and being honest about it.Ā Maybe you want a moreĀ flexible schedule at work?Ā Maybe you want a life partner that operates at yourĀ levelāsomeone who understands you? Maybe you want a girlsā trip or just a break from the kids every once in a while?Ā Whatever your wants may be, know that these desires are coming from within you and that they are true. Even if they sound unconventional or, gasp, selfish, you must not push them aside.Ā When we push our desires aside, we are not being honest with ourselves.Ā And what happens when weāre not true to ourselves?Ā We become resentful towards whoever āmadeā us push our desires to the side, resulting in a frustrating and hateful life.Ā Now, thatās no way to live.
What is your gut telling you?Ā Iām referring to that mid-section place that tells us when our children might be in danger or when a project at work might tank.Ā Listen to it.Ā And donāt be afraid of what it is telling you.Ā Being honest and true to yourself is the best gift you can give anyone.Ā Your desires may not always sit well with you partner, your parents, your kids or your boss.Ā But, really, all your love ones want is for you to be happy.Ā So when you make the choice to be honest with yourself, the change in your attitude will be undeniable.Ā And once you feel good about your choices, your confidence will skyrocket making you a person everyone will want to be around.Ā Respect yourself and your desires and youāll see how quickly othersĀ will respect you.Ā Itās a win-win!
And remember none of your honest desires are selfish or strange.Ā They are your own.Ā They are what you need to live a fulfilling life. They are what you need to be the best person possible.
