The most important parts of our lives always come down to the relationships we have. Family, friends, lovers, partners, colleagues – no matter what – maintaining good relationships is what matters most. From your best friend to the person you spend each day with at the office; sometimes those relationships get a little challenging. You spend too much time together, you have differing opinions, you have a small disagreement over something silly – no matter how close you are – you will have those moments where you just don’t see eye-to-eye. But, on the whole, those relationships are the foundation of your life. Even though it won’t always be perfect, you can do your best to keep your favorite relationships intact by being mindful about your actions.
10 Bad Habits That Ruin Relationships
- Starting Arguments in Public. Just because someone is on your nerves doesn’t mean a public forum is necessary.
- Trying to Change Someone. Take him or her for who they are – that’s why you were drawn to them in the first place, right?
- Giving the Silent Treatment. Really, there’s nothing worse.
- Constantly Criticizing Their Family. This one is out of bounds – you can listen and be a friend – but keep your opinions to yourself.
- Being Jealous. This shows off your most un-flattering side and causes nothing but tension. Be confident!
- Holding a Grudge. Life is short, so let’s just forgive and forget, shall we?
- Taking the Other Person for Granted. Nothing makes someone feel worse than being used, so value that relationship and treat it well.
- Being Attached at the Hip. There’s comes a point where your independence is much more attractive. Everything in moderation goes for relationships too.
- Going Tit-for-Tat. Life really isn’t about keeping score, it’s about enjoying one another.
- Telling Lies. No explanation necessary, just don’t go there.
Which relationships are most important in your life? How do you ensure they stay solid and fun?
