Getting married is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make – and it should be a lifelong commitment, so getting right is a must. Knowing deep down that your man (or woman!) really is your perfect match means walking down that aisle with confidence that will last forever. If you’re feeling unsure, but you’re still talking marriage, it’s time to stop, take a step back – and reevaluate. Here’s a look at 10 signs you shouldn’t marry your partner – and, remember – this isn’t a list you should ignore!
- He or she has been unfaithful to you at some point along the way. Whether you have been dating for 10 days or 10 years – if your partner has been unfaithful, they probably aren’t going to change. Remember – marriage is a lifelong commitment and for someone who has strayed in the past, remaining faithful for a lifetime just may be too much.
- You’re the only financial support in the relationship. When your significant other is living off your income, it may be time to take a closer look at who you’re about to marry. Marriage is a partnership – not a one-way street. Do you both work together in other ways or do you feel like you’re floating the whole relationship?
- You don’t share the same faith. While there are lots of successful interfaith marriages out there, it takes a strong couple who has been able to find their stride practicing two religions in the same household. If you can’t live with that, it may be time to reconsider.
- You can’t stop fighting. Even if your arguments are covered up by friendly banter, loving one another really should take center stage. Marriage has its rough spots and you need to know your relationship is going to be able to go the distance.
- You have a feeling in the pit of your stomach that you aren’t really in love. You have every responsibility to be honest with yourself and your significant other – you both deserve to experience true love.
- Your partner has a problem with addiction. Even though you may want to be there for your partner as he or she seeks out a life of sobriety, that’s an internal battle that needs to be solved before you walk down the aisle.
- You’re being lied to. Being in a relationship means having the guts and the commitment to be 100% honest with each other, always. Remember – you should be best friends too! And, honesty is essential.
- When it comes to lifetime dreams (like having a family or traveling the world), you need to be on the same page – otherwise when times get tough, these differences will be magnified.
- This relationship isn’t bringing out the best in you. A solid relationship should help bring out your best qualities – and his or hers too! You know, two is better than one! If you feel like your significant other is bringing you down, it’s time to think twice about committing for life.
- It’s all about convenience. Getting married is a sacred and precious union between two people who are madly in love – and marrying because it’s easy just isn’t going to bring those passions to fruition. Sit tight and hold out for the one you truly love.
Are you talking marriage with your significant other? Do you have any reservations or are you 100% confident that a wedding is the best next step?
