Probably one of the toughest topics out there, disciplining your children comes in many forms. For some parents it comes naturally, but for some reeling in challenging behavior can also be a challenge for mom and dad. From the kid who has trouble with the rules to every day behavior modifications, learning how to discipline your child is a lifelong process. Every kid is different – and so is every parent. What works for some may not be as effective for others, but hearing what other parents do can be pretty helpful. Here’s a look at 6 ways to discipline your child that will keep you cool, calm and collected.
- Stay on schedule. Creating a routine for your children is one of the best ways to keep behavior in check. Kids are incredibly responsive when they know what to expect rather than being surprised or thrown off by a schedule upset. Keeping bedtime, naptime and meals to a set schedule is an excellent way to prevent meltdowns.
- Give your child the “why” behind both good and wrong behavior. Most kids are pretty curious – and rather than simply being told they cannot do something, they’d like to have a better understanding why. Explaining that certain behaviors are not safe or may hurt someone’s feelings helps a child understand how to make a choice between right and wrong.
- Redirect the energy and attention. When your little one starts to get into things he or she shouldn’t, you may find yourself using the word “no” on repeat. It almost becomes like a broken record that no one really listens to. Rather than going with “no,” try redirection his or her attention to something positive like a fun toy or some time outside.
- Let the tantrums and meltdowns happen. You cannot prevent all bad behavior – kids are little people, just trying to express their frustration or in most cases, that they’re tired or hungry. Since they don’t quite know how to voice that, it often comes out in less than desirable behavior – and can wear you out too. Sometimes it’s best to simply let the tantrum run its course and when it’s over, take a deep breath and move on.
- Give positive praise. This may sound contradictory, but in reality it’s one of the best ways to encourage good behavior. Catching your child in a moment of good behavior is a great way to make sure you have an opportunity to recognize the positive. The more they understand the benefits of good behavior, the more they’ll want to show you just how well-behaved they can be.
- Use the “time-out” tactic. Sounds so simple, right? Well, time-out is a great way to have your child take a deep breath, calm down and gives you the chance to calm down too. Redirecting behavior into something positive often requires the opportunity to each take a moment to yourself.
Do you have any creative ways for disciplining your child?
