Perhaps this should go without saying, but putting your phone down every once in a while isn’t just polite, it’s truly necessary. Of course, it’s understandable that it’s difficult to put down the device that all but runs your life, with its enticing updates, notifications and calendar invites all pleading for your attention. But the fact remains that it’s just a device. And if you find yourself in the company of other human beings, you should honor them with your presence and full attention. For the betterment of social interaction everywhere, here are some simple rules you should try to observe the next time you are overwhelmed with the urge to answer that text, Tweet that comment, and Instagram your cup of coffee all at the same time.
Cell Phone Etiquette
1) While it’s true for many of us that social media plays an intrinsic role in the way we run our businesses, there’s truly a time and place for everything. If you’re wondering what’s appropriate to share and post, read this list and save yourself some potential embarrassment. And just generally consider that not every single second of your day needs to be recorded online, particularly if you’re out with a friend who deserves your attention.
2) If you’re a parent, chances are you’ll be glued to your phone at any point in the day when you’re not with your children (both little and fully grown) – and that’s ok! But if you’re at a business meeting, seeing a friend for coffee, or sharing a meal with your spouse, keep the phone nearby but not as your main point of focus. Make sure it works and that you can hear it. And then, try to enjoy the little bit of time you have to yourself before having to go back to your regular responsibilities.
3) It’s common to have your phone with you at meetings and work presentations. But you’re there for a reason and the more attention you’re able to give to your corporate colleagues, the more beneficial to your career progression. Not to mention it’s really unflattering to be called out by the boss for not paying attention. Keep the phone nearby but don’t let it distract you from business at hand.
4) If a friend has sought your council and you’ve met to discuss what ails her, give her the courtesy of really listening to her and paying her full attention rather than scanning your phone every few seconds. She won’t feel like you really care if you’re more involved in scanning your newsfeed or checking who’s posted what.
5) If you’re waiting for an important phone call, let the other person know. We all have moments when it’s necessary to keep our phones extremely close. Just make sure the individual you are with knows you’re expecting an important call so as not to have it misinterpreted as distraction.
6) If you’re walking into a shared or public area, keep it down. Not everyone needs to hear your phone go off, listen to your text alerts, and be advised that one of your apps requires your attention. Particularly when it comes to places like offices, hospitals, and schools, among others. The same goes with voice calls or Facetime. Keep the volume down to the same as a personal conversation to avoid getting dirty looks.
7) If you’re talking to a waiter, at a cash register, or generally engaging with someone who is trying to assist you, set the phone aside or hang it up, if at all possible. You won’t be able to process the information they’re offering you and it’s rude to only partially listen to someone who is trying to help.
What are some of your pet peeves when it comes to cell phone etiquette? Do you have any suggestions to add to this list?
