So, you’ve got a crush. There are lots of ups and downs when you’ve got your eye on a specific person but it’s important to stay true to yourself and everything that you have to offer. You don’t need to go after that specific person. Instead, shift your energy, focus on yourself, and watch them chase you. Get them to chase you with your energy. Not sure where to start? Read on for more!
Get Them to Chase You with Your Energy
- Be Less Available- How often do you text that specific person? I get it! They’re probably great, and you want to let them know you’re into them, but you can slow down a bit. You don’t need to be putting in all the effort. When you message them like that, it comes off as though you don’t feel like you’re enough or you’re desperate for attention. Do some soul searching. You’re probably beautiful, smart, and super funny. Whoever you date should be begging to be around you—not the other way around. You’re a diamond. Make it hard for that specific person to get to you.
- Set Dating Boundaries- What are your hard “no’s”? Maybe you refuse to date someone broke? Or maybe you’re over guys who don’t text you daily? Stick to those boundaries! Don’t drop everything just because you have a crush. You’re the ultimate prize, and you bring a lot to the table— not the other way around. You need to believe that you’re important. Remember, we accept what we think we deserve.
- Think of Who You Want to Attract– You want to attract someone who mirrors you, so you’re going to want someone who’s the whole version of themselves. They’re going to want the same in you. Think of yourself as the version of yourself who loves you! You can move from there. How would you like to be treated? Consider that before you move on.
