The holidays are difficult enough without your aunts asking the age-old question, “why are you single?” Ouch! Sometimes,
How to Deal With Family Asking About Your Singlehood
So, feeling stress about your impending family-filled holiday parties isn’t exactly novel. If you’re single during the holiday—that’s okay! Life is full of different seasons and, sometimes, you find yourself single and loving life. Certain family members might not see it that way and question why you’re still living the single life. If you’re unsure how to navigate questions on your singlehood, read on.
You’re Focusing on You- Tell your family you want to take your time before taking on a new relationship. You probably learned a lot from your past relationship and you want a break before you head into anything serious. Don’t be afraid to be honest. No one can argue with an honest, straight-from-the-heart answer.
You’re Dating- If you’re actively dating, tell your family you just haven’t found the right person yet! “I haven’t liked anyone enough to be in a relationship with them,” is a great, honest answer. Watch your aunt quiet down after that response.
Make a Joke- If you’re known as the family jokester, don’t be afraid to bring some humor into the mix. When your aunt asks “where’s your boyfriend?” Reply, “Which one?” It’ll lighten the mood and help ease the tension that questions about your love life might bring.
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