If you’re currently in a long-term relationship, you know how hard it can be to keep that romantic spark alive. This is particularly challenging once children come into the picture. Romance is something we have to keep working at. Don’t stop putting in the effort just because you’ve found a level of comfort or because your schedules have become overwhelming. Your relationship should always be at the top of the list. Here are some suggestions to keep fanning those flames. xo
Long-term Relationships: Keeping the Romance Alive
Keep dating your spouse: Make date night a weekly thing. Keep it on your calendar and do everything possible to not have to postpone. Respect this time just as you would with a work appointment. Having this standing appointment with your other half allows you the opportunity to keep getting to know each other as you evolve as individuals, not just as parents or a couple.
Keep the mystery going: Get ready in a different room. If you see each other on a daily basis, it’s hard to keep any mystery between you, and that’s understandable because of practicality issues. But if you find yourself going out somewhere special, get ready in a different room and let the end results have an impact.
Do something nice and unexpected for your spouse: Surprise them with something just for them. This should be just a simple, inexpensive gift, a token of affection that means something to them. Remember that the little details are often the big things that stand out and will be remembered. Do this on a day that isn’t their birthday or an anniversary. The element of surprise is sweet and they’ll be touched that you still remember some of their favorite things.
Gift experiences: Sharing a moment together means making a memory that will last beyond the day in which the gift was given. Try purchasing tickets to a concert, a surprise weekend away, or even tickets to a new movie. Whatever you choose, go out and enjoy doing it together.
How do you keep the romance going? Got any suggestions for fun date ideas?
