Stop Ghosting: How to Tell Someone You Aren’t Interested

It hurts when someone stops talking to you after a few dates. You sit there wondering what you did wrong. Yup, it looks like you’ve been ghosted and it sucks. That’s why you know not to do it when you aren’t interested in someone your seeing. You know the pain and confusion that comes with not getting any closure and you don’t want to do that to someone else, do you?

Stop Ghosting: How to Tell Someone You Aren’t Interested

That’s why it’s important to be honest when dating. Tell the person you’re seeing that you aren’t interested. It’ll make you seem mature, grown up, and like the confident woman you are. You respect others who have invested in you so have the guts to be honest with yourself and the person you’re letting down. Stop ghosting! Not sure where to start? Read on.

Start Somewhere- If you’ve never had to tell someone you aren’t interested in them then my suggestion is to make baby steps. Instead of a phone call or meeting someone in person, send a simple text. If you’ve been seeing this person for a while then you might want to do this in person. If it’s just been a few times, be honest via text.

Start with a Compliment- Letting someone down is tough because you don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. Start with a compliment or a reason you think this person is great. “Hey, I’ve been thinking, and I think you’re great because xyz…” You know the drill!

Be Honest– I hate liars, and I hate lying. I try to be honest at all times, and if someone were letting me down, I’d want their honesty. If you aren’t feeling the situation or want to focus on yourself, tell that person! Obviously, find a way to do it kindly. You don’t want to be rude or hurtful. Try to do it with kindness and love in your heart!

Be Thankful- Thank this person for the time you two had together and let it go. If he or she is an adult, they’ll take it well. If not, then GOOD RIDDANCE! You’ve seen their true colors and can move on from the situation and be grateful!