This is another one from the blog archives. I love coming across things I’ve written in the past and reflecting on whether I still feel that way (it’s actually one of the reasons I think journaling is so important – it helps you check in with yourself). This is an article I wrote leading up to International Convention. I am now finding myself in the same situation of planning and preparing for the event while also trying to strike some balance. Balance is truly essential. Which is why I find the concept of “me time” so crucial. However you choose to define that concept, make sure you allow some time for it. Otherwise, you can find yourself feeling a bit stretched thin. Read ahead for my original article on “me time.” I hope it rings true for you. xoxo
Between planning for the Market America Convention (only three weeks away!), and overseeing Motives, Loren Jewels and Cellular Laboratories my days get can a little, well, hectic. Oh, and let’s not forget being a mother and a wife, which can be a full-time job in itself! And although it’s easy to get wrapped up in the day-to-day stuff, I constantly try to remind myself that I am in control of my life, and not the other way around. More often than not, I have to tell myself: “Hey life, wait a moment. I need a
break.”
After I decide to take a moment for myself, I do tend to feel guilty. I think that if I take a break I could be letting someone down: my daughter, my husband or my friends. What if when I’m taking a break someone needs me? But then, I quickly remember that it is in everyone’s benefit that I take that much needed “me time.” If I continue to ignore my need to take a break, I’ll become exhausted and frustrated, which will lead me to perform poorly. And who wants that? The only way I can be the best mom, the best wife, the best friend, the best boss is by being the best me. And this “me” could use a little rest and relaxation from time to time!
I must admit, my “me time” doesn’t necessarily mean “alone time.” I truly enjoy being around people, so when I do teak a break, I usually take someone along with me. And we usually go for walks, go shopping, have dinners with friends & family, get a massage or hang out on our boat Utopia III. Ah, I feel relaxed just thinking about it!
So what are your favorite “me time” activities? let me know @lorenridinger or leave me a comment!
~Love Loren
