The people who seemingly enter your life to cause destruction and devastation may, in fact, teach you the most important lesson you needed to learn – the epiphany that you deserve better. Pain and loss are two of the greatest teachers that inspire us to learn, grow, and love ourselves unapologetically.
Monday Motivation: 12 Lessons You Learn When You Realize You Deserve Better
#1. Everyone enters your life to serve a purpose. The person who hurts you most is the motivation you needed to recognize you deserve better.
#2. You’ll learn the importance of self-worth, and understand when you deserve better.
#3. You’ll realize life is too short to waste it on the wrong people.
#4. You’ll determine that the words ‘I’m sorry’ often don’t make amends or instigate change.
#5. You’ll catch on that it’s time to stop making excuses for the bad behavior of others.
#6. You’ll learn the importance of the sacred art of letting go.
#7. You’ll determine to listen to your friends in the future. Often, friends see warning signs well before the person in love does.
#8. You’ll identify parts of yourself you need to work on that may have played a role in you dating people who don’t deserve you. Face your insecurities and work on developing your self-confidence and self-esteem.
#9. You’ll learn to have high standards and refuse to date anyone less than you deserve in the future.
#10. You’ll understand that your happiness and peace are far more important than wasting your energy on someone who does nothing to deserve or keep you.
#11. You’ll discover that your life significantly improves when you stop wasting your energy on people who don’t deserve your time.
#12. For the more sensitive souls, you’ll learn to stop taking everything so personally. Sometimes people mistreat others because they are bad people, which has no reflection on you.
