We all know that a person’s body language can often be like a window into his or her soul. Despite what someone might say with words, body language has the power to tell all. Did you know that by taking control of your own body language you have the ability to get someone’s attention and make sure they know how great you are without saying a thing? From turning on your most charming smile, to using eye contact in the sweetest way, check out these body language tricks for getting people to instantly like you.
Save Your Smile. Rather than showing off your pearly whites from the get-go, save your smile for that special someone you’re trying to get to know. Once you’ve made eye contact, let your smile take over your whole body – showing off your sincerity and the true you.
Readjust your position. Rather than looking to the side or over your shoulder, turn and fully face the person you’re speaking with. Opening yourself and giving the conversation your all shows your interest and your genuine desire to connect.
Stand up straight. Exercising good posture shows off your best, most confident self and tells the rest of the group that you’re ready to learn and interact. Slumping and slouching gives off a lazy and uninterested vibe – so skip the slouching!
Stay still! Fidgeting can easily be misinterpreted for boredom or someone who has other things to do and places to be. Keep wiggling and squirming under control to let the other person know they have your undivided attention.
In a large group, be sure to focus on the person you’d like to connect with. Use eye contact to show your genuine attention and interest, despite the distractions around you. Showing your support and interested by paying attention to someone in a large group is a great way to start an ongoing connection.
Connect through your eyes. Rather than quickly looking away when you’re finished speaking, continue to hold eye contact – sharing a silent connection.
Leave the nerves behind. This one is easier said than done for some of us, but having a relaxed, yet confident attitude will give you the feeling that you’re hanging with old friends. Old friends make you feel comfortable and ready to take on new challenges. Exerting that same confidence will show through.
Do you think you can use these body language tricks to make new connections?
