The most powerful relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. No matter what happens in your life, people will come and go, but you will always be with yourself. You can’t rely on a partner to arrive into your life, wave a magic wand and magically make you happy. You have to love yourself enough to live your best life every day – with or without a partner.
3 Reasons Why You Need to Bathe in Self-Love Today
Gone are the days of conflicting messages telling us that we must ooze confidence, but when we do, being labeled as arrogant or vain. There is nothing negative about loving yourself. The way you love yourself will dictate your entire life, from your relationships to how confident and successful you are. Now is the time, more than ever, to love yourself! Loving yourself is so much more than simply appreciating what you see when you look in the mirror. Self-love is investing in your health and taking care of your happiness.
#1 You are the only you in the universe, so you cannot afford not to love yourself unconditionally. Failing to love yourself leads to a lack of confidence and self-belief, neither of which will allow you to get where you dream to be in life.
#2 Lacking self-love attracts toxic behaviors, friendships and relationships like moths to light. Why? Self-hate transmits negative vibes from the very depths of your soul which poisonous people feed on given any opportunity.
#3 The key to happiness is real relationships. How can you sustain authentic relationships with others if you don’t love yourself enough to understand why they adore you or to know when it’s time to walk away if they don’t treat you right? Self-hate can be a considerable burden to friends and partners. Even if you don’t do this consciously, you will continuously be obsessively seeking assurance from those closest to you, or excessively criticising them.